Getting Ready

Most of you who have been dating around may have heard your date (or yourself) say, "I don't think I'm ready..." To be specific are you:

Not ready to make a commitment to faithfulness. Not yet ready to be emotionally engaged. Not ready to NOT date other people. Not ready to make the efforts in dating, proving one's self, cultivating trust. Not ready to strongly hope, to want someone badly, to change routines now.

Not ready to be accountable to one person. Not ready for drama. Not financially ready. Not psychologically ready to unintentionally hurt someone and face another round of guilt. Not ready to fail again. The list goes on.

Is there a way for us to help ourselves move forward from not being ready now to being ready sometime in the near future? One thing that would help is probing deeply into the real reason why we are not ready. That way, we know where to start addressing our issues.

And we have to address them proactively. For the sake of our own happiness and for that somebody right and special who maybe waiting for us to be ready...

So saan ka ba hindi ready and why?